Being a gentleman never goes out of style. Being the best version of yourself from head to toe is a timeless, yet daunting task. Where should you begin, and how can you nail it effortlessly?
Hey, here's some good news – you don't have to look further than your television screen or a night out in the cinema to get top tips on fashion, style, and a great attitude. By binging on movies and TV series, you can learn so many things to bring you closer to becoming a man of substance, like the characters you look up to.
So settle yourself into your couch and ready your popcorn – here are 7 things every man should learn from their favorite characters to become the best version of theirselves:
1. A Confident and Persevering Attitude
Life is rough – and this ain't a joke. We've all got our hurdles to handle, and to take it all, you definitely need to find inner strength. No matter how harsh life may treat you, it's all about being able to keep your chin up and moving forward. In the film The Pursuit Of Happyness, we see a great example of determination in Chris. With self-confidence, even after struggling as a homeless person for a year, his character rises above all the difficulties he's gone through, for himself and his son. Surely, if you have that same attitude towards life, it will ultimately pay off.
2. Being Loyal
Commitment. Some people are allergic to it, but real men know that loyalty is one of the main traits that will keep relationships strong – be it for your lover, your barkada, best bro, your job, or – in Wonder Woman’s Steve Trevor’s case – a country. During World War 2, Steve spied on the German party, defended his country, and made sure that the citizens were safe even if his life depended on it. Of course, we're not talking big sweeping actions here in the name of loyalty. Small acts go a long way, but take your cue from Steve Trevor's unshakeable devotion. It's a pretty remarkable thing.
3. A Good Pair of shoes
Good shoes will take you to good places, and outlast all the ultra-trendy, flashy pairs that you'll get sick of in a few months. Invest in a good pair, like Kingsman's Eggsy does. Eggsy went from being a street punk to a slick Kingsman agent, learning everything he needed to know to be one of the top agents protecting the world from terrorists. Like other agents, he was known for wearing the best suits and the nicest pair of Oxfords ("Oxfords, not brogues," everyone!). When in doubt, just keep in mind Colin Firth's famous line: "The suit is the modern gentleman's armor." And a suit is never, ever complete without a good pair of shoes.
4. Being Level-Headed
ICYMI, it's totally okay to let loose every now and then. Adulting can be extremely frustrating (and tiring), let's admit it, but if you've managed the balancing act of being child-like (not childish, take note) and being a reliable, responsible gentleman, then you know your priorities in life. Take Gossip Girl's Chuck Bass, for instance: he's probably the most self-absorbed man you'll ever have the pleasure of meeting. Formerly a guy who lived his life to the fullest (to the brim and extreme with that IDGAF mindset), Chuck dramatically transformed to be a man focused on his goals. He worked hard for them, and he made sure that he got there without being swayed nor sidetracked. That's Chuck Bass for you–there's nothing he can't do.
5. A Good Sense of Humor
Funny is sexy—women (or anyone, really) will always enjoy the company of a man that could make them laugh. Who wouldn't love a guy who knows how to crack a joke or two? It’s been said that people who make others laugh tend to be liked more, so brush up on witty banter and update your jokes. Whether it's a lame pun or a corny dad joke, don't be afraid to be funny because it's always a good conversation starter and ice breaker. Channel How I Met Your Mother funny guy Barney Stinson wherever you go – the life of the party, the "Broda" – and you're sure to gain a lot of new friends afterward!
6. Ambition
“When life gives you lemons, make lemonade” — that’s exactly what Whiplash’s Andrew Neiman did. He used the negativity and his problems as motivations for him to become the best drummer there could be. From enduring his terrifying mentor and practicing tirelessly til his hands would bleed, to performing at a recital right after a car accident – his ambition made him unstoppable, his drive to become the best molding him to build grit and discipline. So, what drives you? Use that to push you further, and look to Andrew Neiman to make you feel inspired when you need to hustle to get the work done.
7. Good Grooming
Good looks are not everything, sure, as appearances should come second to being the best version of yourself. But a true gentleman knows that he has to take care of himself – respecting your body and how you present yourself to the world will also reflect your inner self. Wearing a suit and tie everyday is quite impractical (and occasionally stuffy with our weather), but do try following the example of Jacob Palmer, the iconic stylish gentleman from Crazy, Stupid, Love: Stay well-groomed and stick to the basics (a good haircut can be life-changing!). Take a cue from him, and you’ll still look great even if all you're throwing on are a shirt and a clean pair of jeans.
—
Every tip and trick you can learn from these characters on film and television will help you reach your goal of becoming the best version of yourself. So be armed with these seven essentials and put yourself out in the world with your best foot forward!
You can achieve being like these gentlemen and your other favorite male icons onscreen with the help of Palmolive Men Anti-Dandruff Shampoo that's made exclusively for men. Its formula is infused with natural ingredients so you can stay true to yourself and stay natural every day. It's available in two variants for deep cleansing and for scalp cooling — both with an anti-dandruff agent that help you fight dandruff and dryness* that's sure to make you feel fresh. Think of it as your easy, everyday essential that works just as hard as you do.
What are you waiting for? Make the switch and try Palmolive Men shampoo today! Like Palmolive Men on Facebook and Instagram for more information on their freshest offering.
*visible flakes only; with regular use
